Sunday, December 6, 2009
My Days are Numbered
Thursday, October 22, 2009
Monday, October 5, 2009
Whirlwind
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
About Me! And Darren too...
What are your middle names? Natalie and Scott
How long have you been together? 6 months
How long did you know each other before you started dating? uh...19 days
Who asked who out? He did the asking
Whose siblings do you see the most? Since mine are in Virginia, North Carolina, Utah and on a mission, and all of his are local, we see his more
Do you have any children together? That's a negative!
What about pets? Nope
Did you go to the same school? Nope. I went to the better BYU ;)
Who is the most sensitive? Me, all the way
Where do you eat out most as a couple? His parents house
Where is the furthest you have ever traveled as a couple? The beach. Ha. Sad. It will be Virginia after the wedding.
Who has the worst temper? Um...I'd say that there's potential for both of us to get pretty heated
Who does the cooking? Both. He does more cooking now since he's at school and I mooch off my grandparents.
Who is more social? Me
Who is the neat freaks? Haha, me, again
Who is the most stubborn? We're both pretty stubborn about different things
Who hogs the bed? I will make a prediction - me. I'm a sprawler.
Who wakes up earlier? I do
Where was your first date? Johnny Carinos, Starbucks for hot chocolate, then Boomers for Mini-golf
Who has the bigger family? Me. 7 is greater than 5
Do you get flowers often? Never have. Hint, hint...
Who eats more? Darren
Who sings better? He says I do, but I don't consider myself a good singer
Who does the laundry? At the moment, it's an individual thing, but I probably will
Who's is better with the computer? Equal
Who drives when you are together? Darren
Who picks where you go to dinner? Usually I do, but I give him a few options
Who is the first one to admit when they are wrong? I think we're both okay with that, at least right now
Who wears the pants in the relationship? Decisions are mutual
Who eats more sweets? Me, times ten
Who cries more? Haha. Me!
What's your best day together? The day I went through the temple and he was able to be there with his parents and my dad. Can't begin to describe it.
Where did you honeymoon? We will be going to Monterey/Carmel
Favorite date night? When we both got the same Redbox movie and watched it while on the phone with eachother, him in Idaho and me in Hughson
Favorite TV show to watch together? The Office
Couple I imagine us growing old like? Our parents
Thanks Whit!! We'll see what my answers are in a few months ;)
I tag...Seraph, Julie, Sheila & Jenny!
Friday, September 11, 2009
8 years ago...
In my next class we were told by our teacher that we couldn't talk about it, because they didn't know what was going on either. We were to go about our day as normal, though that wasn't really likely. Kids started being pulled out of class as their parents came to pick them up. Cell phones stopped working, so the guidance offices at the school were packed with kids worried about their parents that worked at the Pentagon. I can distinctly remember not worrying about my dad though. Fear went through me at first, but then I can remember the strongest feeling of peace I think I've ever felt, and knew that everything was going to be ok. By my last class of the day (started somewhere about 12:30) we finally got more details since were were in a room that had a television. We all headed home at normal time (2:00), and I walked through the front door to find my dad in front of the television. He had been in a meeting about the attack on the World Trade Center when the plane that hit the Pentagon flew right over his building. He was able to make it home quickly and safely. I then called my best friend Seraph to see if her dad had made it home, and he hadn't, so I went over to wait with her and her family until he came home late that evening.
School was cancelled the next day, but we still went to Seminary to talk about things and my dad spoke to all of us. I don't remember what was said, but still remember the feelings of peace, patriotism and unity that filled our ward, school and community in the weeks following that day.
When I went home for Christmas this past year I was able to visit the Pentagon Memorial for the first time. I had been wanting to go since its dedication, but hadn't made it home yet. I highly recommend it to anyone. I think the design is perfect, and I cried the whole way through it. There is a bench for everyone that died at the Pentagon that day, whether on the plane or in the building. They are layed out in rows by the year of the victim's birth. Each bench has a plaque on the end that holds their name, and depending on what you see when you look at the name plate (the Pentagon or the sky) you will know that they died in the building (if you are facing the Pentagon) or on the plane (the sky). It was truly a moving experience.
I hope I never forget the feelings that I had that day, or in the following weeks, and that I will always remember how blessed I am to live in this country and to have the freedoms I do. Today I also think about my grandfather, dad and brother and the countless others that are serving, or have served, our country in the armed forces. They sacrifice so much so that we can live the lives we do.
Tuesday, September 8, 2009
Summer Catch-up
After my parents left Darren and I went into full swing wedding planning. We put our deposit down with the photographer, got him fitted for his tux, went through oodles of baby pictures for a slideshow for our reception and open house, organized tons of addresses, ordered his wedding band (thanks for the tip Whit!), ordered our wedding cake, and found ties for all of the brothers/dads/brother-in-law. He left for Rexburg on Tuesday, so I'm left on my own to finish everything else. It shouldn't be too bad though. There's only a few things left to take care of. I also started school last night. I'm only taking 2-3 classes (haven't fully decided yet) towards my teaching credential. I hope to be able to find a fun class for me to take in Turlock, cake decorating or something, as well.
Darren and I do have our engagement pictures scheduled for October 3rd in Provo, so maybe a few weeks after that I'll post again.
That's it for now! Till next time :)
Tuesday, July 7, 2009
Engaged!
Wednesday, July 1, 2009
Monday, June 22, 2009
Charles & Trisha Bogus
Saturday was the big day, and my mom, Sarah and I headed over to Trisha's early to put together the centerpieces and get the little things ready. We cut up lemons and arranged flowers until about 11:30 when we headed back to the hotel for lunch and then headed up the canyon to set up. It rained on and off all morning, so we were really hoping it would be nice at 5 for the ceremony. Darren and I left at about 3 to run back and change, and everyone else followed close behind. We got back to the park about 4:45 and watched the dark clouds roll in. The ceremony was short and sweet, and the rain didn't start falling until after a few family photos had been snapped. We attempted to wait it out under the nearby pavillion and eat our Thai food dinner, but when the rain began to come horizontally with the strong winds we decided to bail. Everyone headed out of the canyon and to a nearby community center in Lindon where the party continued. The cake somehow survived, and we all dried off and had a merry old time. A few friends from Virginia were able to make it, and it was great to see all of them. As I was sitting with Darren I looked over at Justin, with Jared Rammell, Matt Gillon and Sam & Anna Lattin and missed the old days and my gang of friends. I was friends with these guys too, but they're all a few years younger than me. I'll always look back on those years with smiles and great memories :)
Sunday, June 14, 2009
Bottled Water, Camp Lehi 2009
It’s not a party with a paper hat, Or a bag of candy that will make him fat,
Monday morning we got up and set up Whitney's stuff on the other side of camp (much easier in the daylight) and then hung out until the girls started arriving at about 11. Day one is pretty chaotic with girls setting up tents and adjusting to camp life. At campfire that night each group did an introductory skit, so each of my girls picked a brand of bottled water and introduced themselves as that (since our group name was Bottled Water - our theme this year was Ripples: The Power of Your Example, and each group name had to be a body of water that could have ripples in it). It ended up being pretty cute.
My AWESOME group of girlsTuesday was our big certification day. As third-years, the assigned meal we had to cook in our campsite was dutch oven chicken and rice, corn, and cobbler. It was definitely a meal to remember. The cobbler finished first, so we ate that and then the corn since it just had to cook on the coals from the cobbler. The chicken didn't get done for quite a while longer, but we had some good times down at the campsite while we waited. That morning we had a shining moment (devotional) about being lady-like, and then got to campfire that night where the staff did a skit called "Fountains" and spit water the entire time, but in sync with instrumental music. It was so funny. The theme for the night was "Girls' Camp Through the Ages" so my girls demonstrated what girls' camp might have been like in the Stone Age, the mid 1800's, the 1960's and today.
My girls doing their skit
Wednesday was hike day, so we got up and packed lunches, put on our ponchos (it rained on and off all week) and headed out. The first half was all down the mountain, so it was no big deal. At the bottom we stopped for a bit next to "The Wall" and Papa Johns (our guide) talked to the girls for a little bit about the importance of teamwork. They then had to each get over the 10 foot wall with the help of the other girls, and once they got down, they had to watch and offer only moral support. It took just about 35 minutes to get all 22 girls over, but once the last one finished (took a good 10-15 minutes for her alone) it was a great feeling. It was so cool to watch all the girls work together and figure out how to get everyone over in the most logical way. Afterwards we had lunch and the girls completed the orienteering part of their certification. The final leg of the hike was all back up the mountain, and boy was it killer at some parts. The weather was perfect though, in the high 60's and overcast most of the day. It was definitely an experience to remember, and something I'm sure the girls won't soon forget.
The start of "The Wall"
Thursday was beach day! Unofficially, this was also known as Cell Phone Reception Day. All week the landline at camp had been down, so no one could make any phone calls home. I couldn't wait to be able to call a certain someone, and judging by the number of voicemails I had from him he was looking forward to it too ;) That morning we had shining moments again, but this time the girls were split up by year group and went to two differnent ones. The night before I had been asked by the Stake Relief Society President to help with hers (she had the 3rd years and JC's). A friend of mine was also asked to help out, and we were given the assignment to speak about what we do in our daily lives to live by the Spirit and become closer to Christ. Denise and I sat down and talked for a while about what each of us wanted to discuss. She spoke about music (having a song in your heart all day) and working hard, and I discussed prayer and scripture study. The first time around I was totally flustered and felt like I wasn't getting everything across the way I wanted to, but the second time (when I had my own girls) went so much better. Right as we were finishing the sun came out and warmed us all up and got us in the beach mood :) It was a fantastic day.
Friday was our last full day at camp, and all of the counselors spent most of the morning hanging out in the dining hall while the girls finished up their certification. This year there were a few couches in the dining hall, and many naps were taken by leaders during that short time :) The sun was out almost all day, so Whitney and I decided to hit up all of the dangerous free time activities that afternoon. First we hit up tomahawks and we both did pretty well. We then moved on to archery, where Whitney totally kicked my trash. I seemed to get progressively worse as I went on, but it was a fun experience. At one point I felt like Robin Hood from Robin Hood: Prince of Thieves and imagined myself shooting a flaming arrow at the target. Oh, silly me. Our last activity for the day was bb guns. It was my turn to kick trash. I got a good amount of my shots near the center target, and a few right in the middle. Maybe a new calling in life? Haha. Just kidding. It was fun though. Campfire that night was testimony meeting, and it was so nice to hear the sweet testimonies of all of my girls and many more throughout the camp.
Yup, I did that
My bb gun target
Saturday we went home! I went around to wake up my girls at 7, and to my surprise they were all already awake. Even after staying up until midnight and all of them sleeping in the same tent. We were miraculously all packed up and ready to go before flag at 8:15. How? I have no clue. Whitney and I were out of there at 10:45, and home by 2:30 after a stop at In-N-Out for lunch. It was so nice to take a warm shower and throw all of my clothes in the wash after one wet, cold and dirty week. After it all, I am so grateful for the opportunity I had to go. It's nice to get away from everything, and have a major spiritual uplift every day for a whole week. In a few weeks we have a joint Relief Society/Young Women Enrichment Night and it will be fun to see my girls again. I definitely learned something from each of them over the course of the week and I am amazed at the strength some of them have at their young age. All in all, it was a great week.
Friday, June 5, 2009
Pomp & Circumstance
Mom and Dad
It was a bummer that more of my family couldn't be there, but there were extenuating circumstances for some of them. I'm now looking forward to starting the credential program in September and any other adventures life may bring :)
Tuesday, May 26, 2009
Summer Time
By Sunday night the Darren's brothers Eric and Jeff had come down from Sacramento with their wives/families, so we had a great family dinner after church and then played Ticket to Ride, Acquire and then Cranium (good times with Ed McMahon and Sherlock Holmes). It was so much fun laughing, hanging out and getting to know his family better. I swear, I haven't laughed that hard in a long time. After all that we still found the energy to stay up and watch Paul Blart: Mall Cop.
Monday morning we all headed down to New Brighton Beach near Santa Cruz. It wasn't the warmest day ever (I'm pretty sure the high was somewhere near 70), and I wasn't brave enough to get anywhere near the water, but it was great to lay out and just hang with the Capell family. On the way home we hit up Nations (love their grilled cheese) and then played a last round of Ticket to Ride before Eric and Jenny headed back home. We turned on Music & Lyrics, but I totally fell asleep and had a nice nap :)
Darren and I had to say goodbye this afternoon, and by george it wasn't fun. I'll see him in 3 1/2 weeks for Trisha's wedding, so hopefully I'll stay busy enough with my birthday, graduation and girl's camp that I won't miss him too much between now and then. Not likely though. Haha. Overall, it was such a fun weekend, and I can't wait to see him again.
Thursday, May 21, 2009
Congrats to Kris!!
This has to be my favorite part from last night's American Idol finale. I am a total sap if I tell you all that I teared up when I saw this? To be quite honest, I didn't watch one episode of this season until Tuesday night, but I am so glad that Kris won. Adam seems to be a better fit for Broadway, and I just didn't go for his style. I loved this duet between Kris and Keith Urban as well.I apologize for being away from the blog for so long, but things have been crazy busy with the semester ending next week and graduation the week after. I hope to get back to updates soon! Darren is coming home tomorrow for the holiday weekend, so I'll actually have fun things to do this weekend :)
Saturday, April 18, 2009
Left My Heart In San Francisco
Easter
Saturday, April 11, 2009
Play Ball!
Monday, March 30, 2009
A Call for Stories...
Thanks!!
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
Jewels!
Today is Julie Lynn McCullough Spackman's big day. She is now a quarter of a century. Half-way to fifty. The big 25.
I wish I had some better pictures with me, boy do it ;) Jules and I had many a laugh in Mrs. Bixby's 7th grade history class, Sunday School with the rowdy boys, Young Women's, Girl's Camp with the hammock and chair (good times!), and so many more memories. I can't seem to do her justice. She was one of my first friends in Virginia, and it was so nice to have her at the same school. I remember when we were both learning to drive, and she had to learn on a stick shift. Haha. I remember stalling on the way home from the mall with Tania, listening to 'N Sync on the way to Seminary, getting on your case about your boyfriends, and hating Hunk-a-chunk (you didn't, but Ser and I sure did!). I could go on and on, but I won't. Jules, you're one of my best friends, and I hope one day that we can find the time to get together and have a fun filled weekend of reminiscing while our husbands take care of the kids...looks like I've got some work to do ;) Thanks for all you've done for me Jules, I hope I can be half the mom and wife you are.
Happy Birthday!!
Wednesday, March 4, 2009
One for posterity
Ever laughed so hard you've cried? I hadn't laughed that hard until today when I saw this video. This kid will probably kill his dad for taping this when he gets older, but I hope it brings a smile to your face :)
Friday, February 20, 2009
Semper Fi
It's hard to believe that it's already been 7 months since Justin left, but I'm excited to say that today is the day we've been waiting for since July! As of yesterday morning, word was that his platoon would be getting to their base in Camp Lejune, North Carolina about 8pm tonight. I can't wait to be able to talk to him. Monday morning I got a call on my cell from a number that I didn't recognize, as it wasn't even structured like a U.S. number. After listening to the voicemail left I started bawling when I realized it was Justin calling from Bahgdad. He'd never called me before so I wasn't even expecting it, but I'm still kicking myself for not answering it.
He wanted me to be there when he got off the bus in North Carolina, but with my school and work responsibilities that just wasn't possible. I am hoping to be able to go out sometime next month while he is home on leave for most of the month, but we'll see. If not then, maybe sometime during April when I'm on Spring Break. Hopefully it will happen soon though, it's been far too long since I've seen him.



